By Mister Curie
So, Original Mohomie asked it first, but I've had this post in the queue waiting for the right moment to ask, I guess this is as good a time as any.
My wife and I have called it a "mixed-orienation marriage squared". A poster recently referred to it as a "mutually mismatched orientation marriage." Either way, it means that a gay man is married to a lesbian. I have tried to find information about others in our situation, but to no avail. Perhaps someone else knows the term for the relationship my wife and I share so that we can find others who are also in it.
Madam Curie claims that she always secretly wished she could be married to a gay man. She says that she is more attracted to me knowing that I am gay. From comments on our blog and from a thread on AfterElton.com, there is also apparently a fetish among at least some lesbians for gay guy-guy porn. So, surely we are not the only couple where a gay man is married to a lesbian, and perhaps lesbians even search out for a gay man to marry. However, I am not able to find any evidence for it.
In searching, I came across a news article about a gay man and a lesbian who got married, but it was only for 55 hours and as a protest that gays and lesbians are not allowed to have same sex marriages.
I also came across a site designed for Jewish Lesbians, but while the site claimed it occasionally received requests from gay men seeking a lesbian spouse, it denied ever receiving such a request from a lesbian.
So, does anyone know where we can find support materials for a gay man married to a lesbian, whatever such a marriage is called?
No, Original Mohomie, we don't call it "doomed".